Modern relationships …

This is what relationships routinely look like in 2013:

And following are just a couple snippets of what our Creator, who made us social creatures with a need to be loved and to express love, says our relationships should look like … 
“4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance,” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. 
“9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other,” Romans 12:9-10.
Who do think has the better idea for relationships? What do your relationships look like?
Scotty